Ray, I think this stamp and your statement is wrong. Cause if you wanna be accepted as a 'gamer', stop separating yourself from other gamers by putting yourself in a category that puts you apart from them :I
Well you're trying to be proud of the fact you're a 'girl gamer', which is putting yourself in another category away from other gamers. Surely if you wanna not be a surprise when they come upon you in a game, you should just call yourself a regular gamer just like them.
By classifying yourself as a girl gamer, you're choosing not to just be a gamer, so you're separating yourself from a normal gamer. Just cause of your gender doesn't mean you need to put yourself into a category.
You are though, you're putting yourself apart from everyone else, if you want to be accepted just declare yourself a gamer and then people won't find it as weird(which they already don't) to see a girl playing a game.